Does anyone else get stressed out by music lessons?
Posted on November 23rd, 2011 by admin
I love playing music, but I always choke up in lessons which makes the teacher think I’m a complete idiot. I want to learn, I really want to learn, but some weeks I just can’t even fathom the thought of going there.
Sounds like you might have some performance anxiety? I totally get where you’re coming from. I’ve struggled with performance anxiety in the past. Depending on your instrument, if you really want to continue you should stick with private lessons. While guitarists might be able to learn on their own, certain instruments REQUIRE you to have somebody teach you it, or you’ll develop bad habits (I had to undo about 3 years of bad bassoon habits when I got my first teacher). The thing that always gets me through a stressful performance or lesson is just preparing the HECK out of the music that they require you to play. When you freak out, the first thing to go is your ability to sightread. Thats why you gotta rely on your finger memory when the rest of your mind blanks. If you practice something enough, your fingers (or arms or whatever if you’re a percussionist) will work without you having to think too much about it. Beyond that, if you feel your teacher is too intimidating, you could always look for a teacher that you find more friendly. Good luck! And try not to give up on the lessons too easily!